Selfishness is a lack of empathy; it creates an imbalance in the relationship. When you allow this ego energy to take control of your mind, you become numb to all around you. This attitude is conflictual in any relationship, showing carelessness to the other partner.

 Can selfishness be a barrier to a healthy relationship? Selfishness gives rise to apathy, whereas in a relationship, each partner seeks fulfillment. If you are apathetic, you don’t care about sharing something of yourself with the other partner; therefore, you do not give a chance to love to flow. Dealing with a selfish person makes you feel alone all the time. A healthy relationship requires attention, tenderness, affection, and understanding. When selfishness takes place in your mind, you lose these qualities.

To get rid of selfishness, you need to develop altruism and generosity. These qualities make your heart ready to let love grow.