“If a kingdom is divided against itself, that kingdom cannot stand. If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand.” Mark 3:24-25

Strength is the fruit of union. In a relationship, people may have a different approach but should avoid a quarrel. They must stay united despite their divergence. Division always gives way to hatred and weakens both parties. It is best to seek mediation if the issue arouses controversy among the parties. In this case, it is better to avoid the worst, paying attention to the words spoken; otherwise, stay silent. It is easier to reestablish a relationship if we have managed our tongue. Peace is the most potent weapon in a situation; use it as much as you can. Although one of the partners may attempt to derail negotiations, keep an open heart. An open mind is the most valuable tool to convince others; it may rally the reluctant party. All we need in disagreement is a recall to the order, not a victory. There is no winner in a quarrel. If the parties can’t reach an agreement to their disagreement, they are all losers.  

If you come up with an issue that may end up in a fishtail, seek divine mediation. Some situations may go beyond human comprehension. A professional consultation will not help, but God is omniscient. There is no limit to His mediation.

Dr. Serge Valcourt

Spiritual Conscience Awakeness