It is a good practice to sit, watch, and observe who deserves your gratitude. It would help if you cared about time, attention, honesty, loyalty, and respect from others, not about materials you could receive from them. Lack of respect could jeopardize relationships. People are born and raised in different environments, values, and beliefs. It would be best to consider all these before allowing someone to sit in the front row of your life.

Sometimes if you look around and see empty seats, don’t believe you lost friends; they just were not the real ones. Marcel Proust said, “Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.” By the law of attraction, our hearts are magnets that attract affinity. Our circle is with people of similar values. If you want a different network of friends, it is best to change your attitudes first. If you become unselfish and prioritize intrinsic values, you will attract friends alike in their beliefs.

 You must not utter words or take actions that divide; doing so will disconnect your network. Negative vibrations can contaminate your circle of friends. Don’t let your words and actions poison any relationship. 

Dr. Serge Valcourt

Spiritual Conscience Awakeness