When you have an essential decision to make, you may sometimes be troubled because there are too many conflicting things churning inside of you – you feel pushed in one direction, then in another, then in a third, and so on. Amid this confusion, you cannot see clearly. So, it is not the time to decide, as the conditions are ripe for you to make mistakes.
It would be better to take your time to calm yourself and let things quieten down, for it is only in the silence of thoughts and feelings that you will receive the answer from your higher Self, your spirit. This silence is the source of clarity and transparency. And it would be best if you certainly had this silence to make the right decisions. 

Omraam Mikhael Aivanhov